036 : Debunking The Lie That “I am Unworthy of an Answered Prayer”
Debunking the Lie That I Am Unworthy of God’s Love
In this episode of The Refined Sisterhood podcast, Kait and I tackle a powerful and deeply rooted lie that many women struggle with: the belief that we are unworthy of God’s love. This lie can sneak into our thoughts and influence how we see ourselves, our worth, and our relationship with God. But here’s the truth: we are always worthy of God’s love—not because of anything we’ve done, but because of what Jesus has done for us.
The Lie of Unworthiness
So many of us have moments where we feel unworthy of love—whether it’s because of past mistakes, guilt, shame, or feelings of inadequacy. We tell ourselves that we’ve messed up too much or that we’re not good enough to receive God’s grace. But this couldn’t be further from the truth.
The reality is, God’s love for us is not based on our performance. His love is unconditional, unchanging, and never dependent on our ability to "earn" it. This episode is all about debunking the lie that we are unworthy of God’s love and reminding ourselves of the truth that, in Christ, we are always worthy because of His sacrifice.
The Truth About Our Worth
In this episode, we talk about the truth that our worth is rooted in who God says we are—not in our achievements, appearance, or past mistakes. The Bible says that we are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and that God has called us His beloved (Ephesians 1:6). We are daughters of the King, created in His image, and deeply loved by Him.
Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross proves our worth. He laid down His life for us because we are worth it to Him. There is nothing we can do to make God love us more, and nothing we can do to make Him love us less. His love for us is perfect, and it’s not based on our performance—it’s rooted in His character and His perfect grace.
How to Break Free from the Lie of Unworthiness
Overcoming the lie of unworthiness requires a shift in our mindset. It’s about replacing the lies we’ve believed with the truth of who God says we are. Here are a few ways to break free from the lie that you are unworthy of God’s love:
Remind Yourself of Who You Are in Christ: Each day, take time to reflect on your identity as a daughter of God. Read Scriptures that remind you of your worth, like Romans 8:37-39, which says nothing can separate us from the love of Christ.
Reject the Lies: The enemy loves to plant seeds of doubt in our minds. When the lie of unworthiness creeps in, reject it immediately. Tell yourself the truth: you are worthy of God’s love because of what Jesus did for you.
Receive God’s Grace: Sometimes, we have a hard time accepting grace because we think we need to "earn" it. But God’s grace is a gift, and all we have to do is receive it. Trust that God’s love is freely given and not dependent on your actions.
Surround Yourself with Truth: Stay connected to a community of women who remind you of your worth and encourage you in your faith. Being around others who speak truth over your life can help reinforce your identity in Christ.
Pray for a Renewed Mind: Ask God to renew your mind and help you see yourself the way He sees you. The more you align your thoughts with God’s truth, the more you’ll experience freedom from the lies of unworthiness.
Living in the Freedom of God’s Love
When we truly grasp the depth of God’s love for us, we begin to live in the freedom He’s given us. We no longer have to strive for approval or try to earn His love. Instead, we can rest in the truth that we are loved just as we are. This freedom allows us to fully embrace our identity in Christ and walk confidently in the calling He has placed on our lives.
In this episode, we remind you that you are never too far gone to receive God’s love. No matter what you’ve done, no matter where you’ve been, God’s love is for you. And His love is more than enough.
Closing Thoughts
The lie that we are unworthy of God’s love is powerful, but the truth of who we are in Christ is even more powerful. If you’ve been struggling with feelings of unworthiness, know that God’s love for you is not based on your performance—it’s based on His grace. Let go of the lies and embrace the truth of who you are in Christ. You are worthy, and you are deeply loved.
With love,
Maddie & Kait