042 : Knowing Christ as my Life with Sophie Joines
Knowing Christ as My Life: A Conversation with Sophie Joines
In this deeply moving episode of The Refined Sisterhood podcast, Kait and I sit down with our beautiful friend Sophie Joines to discuss what it truly means to know Christ as our life. Sophie shares her personal journey of discovering that Christ is not just a part of her life but the very source of it. We dive into how understanding our identity in Christ transforms the way we live, think, and relate to others.
Christ is Our Life: What Does That Really Mean?
When we say "Christ is my life," it’s not just a catchphrase—it’s a profound reality that changes everything. Sophie beautifully explains how Christ is not just someone we turn to when we need help or direction, but He is the very foundation of our existence. Our life in Christ means that every aspect of who we are—our identity, purpose, desires, and actions—flows from His love, grace, and truth.
Sophie walks us through the scriptures that emphasize this truth, particularly Colossians 3:4: "When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with Him in glory." This verse reminds us that our lives are not our own; they are hidden with Christ in God, and He is the one who gives our lives meaning and purpose.
The Journey to Fully Embrace Christ as Our Life
For many of us, understanding the fullness of this truth doesn’t come overnight. Sophie shares her personal journey of realizing that Christ is her life—not just an accessory to it. This shift in perspective is not only liberating but life-giving. When we begin to view Christ as the source of our life, everything changes. We stop seeking fulfillment in worldly things and instead find our satisfaction in Him alone.
But this isn’t always an easy journey. Life can throw challenges, doubts, and distractions our way, and sometimes it’s hard to fully surrender. Sophie encourages us to stay grounded in the truth of God’s Word and to remember that our identity is not defined by what we do or what others think of us, but by who we are in Christ.
Living with Christ as My Life
Once we truly grasp that Christ is our life, we begin to live with an entirely different perspective. Sophie talks about how this understanding affects every area of her life—from how she approaches her work and relationships to how she deals with challenges and struggles.
When Christ is our life, we are no longer bound by the pressures of the world to prove ourselves. We live out of the freedom and grace that Christ has already given us. We don’t have to strive for approval because we have already been approved by God. Our worth is secure in Christ, and that changes the way we approach every moment.
How Knowing Christ as My Life Transforms Relationships
One of the most significant areas where the reality of Christ being our life impacts us is in our relationships. Sophie shares how knowing Christ as her life has transformed the way she interacts with others. When we are rooted in Christ, we no longer view relationships through the lens of self-interest or pride. Instead, we begin to love others as Christ loves us—sacrificially, selflessly, and with grace.
This mindset change leads to deeper, more meaningful relationships. We learn to serve others without expecting anything in return, and we show up with compassion and understanding. The Holy Spirit empowers us to love and forgive as Christ does, which radically changes the way we interact with the world around us.
Living in the Freedom of Christ
As we wrap up the conversation, Sophie encourages us to embrace the freedom that comes from knowing Christ as our life. When we live with Christ at the center of everything, we are free from the chains of sin, comparison, and the pressures of the world. We are free to live out the unique calling God has placed on our lives, knowing that He is with us every step of the way.
In Christ, we find true freedom—not the kind the world offers, which is fleeting and empty, but a freedom that is eternal, secure, and deeply fulfilling. This is the freedom that allows us to live with purpose and joy, no matter our circumstances.
Closing Thoughts
Knowing Christ as our life is the most transformative truth we can embrace. It shifts our entire perspective, empowers us to live out our calling, and fills our hearts with peace and joy. As we continue to walk with Christ at the center of our lives, we can confidently say that He is not just a part of our story—He is the Author of it.
With love,
Maddie & Kait